YOU CAN GET RID OF YOUR GUILT FEELING
Have you a guilt feeling? If your answer is yes, that is alright. I want you to know that you are not the first person neither will you be the last person to have guilt feeling. For your information, a sense of guilt is good. However, if you refuse to get rid of your guilt feeling, it is then dangerous and deadly.
Every human being no matter how good or bad he/she may be will sometimes experience a feeling of guilt, and this feeling is the result of conscience that is given to us by God. There is no living person that does not have conscience, though some people might have deadened their own and make it looks as if they didn’t have it, yet it is there and can be awakened at any time.
There are several examples of people that had guilt feelings and get rid of it and move on in life without letting guilt feeling destroying their destinies. They are motivated to the highest moral standard to worthwhile pursuit and aspiration.
The top on the list was a righteous man who hated and unrelentingly persecuted people of religious minority. Later he developed a feeling of guilt. Then he righted his wrong when his feeling of guilt motivated him to desirable action. He became a great preacher. And his thoughts, words, and actions have changed the history of the world during the past two thousand years. That man was Saul of Tarsus.
Therefore, you too can get rid of your guilt feeling and make this world becomes a better place to live.
There was a story of a woman I will call lady Shadino(not a real name but a true life story), Shadino had got married to a loving husband who tried all his best to satisfy Shadino sexually. But despite the Shadino’ husband effort, Shadino still kept two of her former boyfriends and she always make has sex with either of them at least twice in a week. Shadino knew it is wrong and she had feeling of guilt. It seemed that she found herself doing the same thing repeatedly, and this put her to become worse, but instead of her to make good use of guilt feeling, this was affecting her negatively.
Such are those experiences of many people.
Feelings of guilt have led people to do many unwarranted things like destroying their lives, injure themselves in other to atone for their wrong doing. But that is not the right way to get rid of guilt feelings – infact, going that way make it worse.
There are better ways and permanent ways to get rid of guilt feelings:
The steps to take are these:
1. God-factor: God is the creator of conscience, he puts it there, and he knows how it works, the first step is that you come to God.
2. Then you thank God for all he has done for you, the blessing he has given to you – this is very important – you show your appreciation to God that he creates you and even make your conscience works that you can feel guilty of your wrong doing.(This may sound awkward but it really works).
3. You feel sincerely sorry for your wrong doing and ask God for your forgiveness, confess all your wrong doing to him, and truly repent of them.
4. Then you begin to right /correct every wrong, this may involve going to counselor or those that are “genuinely” men or women of God(please note emphasis is on genuine) if you further need assistant.
5. When you are tempted to do wrong, the conscience will whisper to you. When it does, stop and listen. Thank God, then make strong decision to do the right things.
6. Everyday say repeatedly to yourself “By the grace of God on my life I am free from feeling of guilt, Jesus has set me free”. As you do so, make sure you block any avenue that may want you remember it.
7. Once you are free and get rid of your guilt, you too can even help people by sharing your experience in a helpful way.
God bless you.
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